At my church I have been giving a series of talks on the basic Christian life, and through studying and preparing for the second talk, spiritual habits, I came to some important discoveries that I think are both helpful for my own personal life as well as when I have a chance to teach.
There are numerous spiritual practices that we can do as Christians. Sometimes these are called “means of grace”. In short, these are often the channels through which God works to speak to us and grow us in our a. proximity of relationship with Him. b. our clarity of understanding of Him c. Our likeness to Him…for which these then greatly effect our daily life. Some example of these channels/means are 1.personal scripture reading 2. prayer 3. attending church services 4. listening to a sermon 5. fellowship with other Christians 6. acts of service 7. praising God…actually, many more “means” could be listed, but for now, these are some foundational ones.
Now, in teaching about Christian growth, there is a danger that maybe many of us feel…it can be easy to turn these practices into a legalistic list of “do this”, whereas the focus is not on the end (growth in Christ), but simply on fulfilling a new kind of law. Often times, it is this short sightedness that can turn good words into heavy burdens. Bible reading is good in that it opens us to God Himself and He often speaks to us through His Word. Because we read the Bible, that does not mean that God will speak to us in a clear way every single time…in fact, it might feel somewhat rare sometimes. But through regular reading we are keeping a channel open for God to speak to us. So, the goal isn’t simply to just “read the Bible”, but rather to keep a channel open for God to communicate to us and for us to know Him more. Or perhaps listening to a sermon on Sunday at your church. Many times, we will not be particularly struck by the words of the sermon, but sometimes we are. It is because we regularly go to church and receive the Word in the form of a sermon that we are sometimes shown and led down further the road of growth.
So, what is helpful for our growth in Christ is to keep these channels active, desiring for God to show us, lead us, fill us, help us to see, etc.. Through the normal activities of prayer, praise, scripture reading, we are able to remain connected with the living God. Of course, God can use any means to communicate with us and cause us to grow. God spoke through a donkey to Balaam. God can confront us through people who do not believe in God. Sometimes through other experiences or nature or whatever, God reaches us. Yet more often than not, it is through these channels mentioned before that God does often work. We do in fact need God to work through, but that does not mean we can do nothing. Thus we continue to practice these things.
But, there are times when our growth feels as if it has stalled. We are not growing in Christ. While reading something that Harvest church put out some years ago (the Reveal Study) something obvious but important struck me. When our lives are in a kind of sin, perhaps an immoral sexual relationship, some immoral bad habits, or perhaps we are just holding on to bitterness very strongly. Often it is the case that while we are holding strongly on to a particular sin, we unconsciously start to cut the channels that are means for us to connect with God. We hesitate to read the Bible because we know that there are words against us. So we avoid it. We cease reading. What we are doing here is simply trying to protect ourselves from God Himself. Or, we might continue to read, but we will read it at an arms length, never letting it shine on our hearts. Perhaps this is why some people will quit going to church, because they fear God’s interaction with them and their sin. Just as we avoid people who will make us uncomfortable, when our lives are clearly in the darkness, so we will avoid the Word, church, people who might speak truth to us, prayer (other than for supper) and heartfelt praise. The reason being is, we are here walking the opposite path.
So for growth, what we need is connection to the Living God. But when sin is in our lives, these tend to be the very things we avoid. But, it is good to remember these spiritual habits not as ends in of themselves (reading the Bible for the sake of reading the Bible, praying but simply keeping up a habit), but as ways that we connect more with Christ. And it is through these connections that God causes us to grow in proximity, knowledge and likeness to Christ.
